Beach Ogling...

[TillyGalore]

What if a 41 y/o woman olges a 20-something y/o guy. Is that creepy?

[Shammrog]

What if a 41 y/o woman olges a 20-something y/o guy. Is that creepy?

No - not at all. 20 is plenty. (That rhymes.)

[TillyGalore]

What if a 41 y/o woman olges a 20-something y/o guy. Is that creepy?

No - not at all. 20 is plenty. (That rhymes.)

What if he looks like he's in his late teens, i.e. legal?

[Shammrog]

What if a 41 y/o woman olges a 20-something y/o guy. Is that creepy?

No - not at all. 20 is plenty. (That rhymes.)

What if he looks like he's in his late teens, i.e. legal?

I would say what he looks like is irrelevant; it is actual age. Indeed part of this quandary comes from (for example) 15 year-old chickies looking like they are 25.

(Drool...)

[TillyGalore]

What if a 41 y/o woman olges a 20-something y/o guy. Is that creepy?

No - not at all. 20 is plenty. (That rhymes.)

What if he looks like he's in his late teens, i.e. legal?

I would say what he looks like is irrelevant; it is actual age. Indeed part of this quandary comes from (for example) 15 year-old chickies looking like they are 25.

(Drool...)[/quote]

I'm trying to present things from another perspective. Why is it that if an older man ogles a younger girl he is a dirty old man, but if an older woman ogles a younger man, no one thinks ill of her?

For the record, when I ogle men (there are some pretty good looking older ones too), I refer to it as admiring God's handy work. ;)

[Shammrog]

I'm trying to present things from another perspective. Why is it that if an older man ogles a younger girl he is a dirty old man, but if an older woman ogles a younger man, no one thinks ill of her?

For the record, when I ogle men (there are some pretty good looking older ones too), I refer to it as admiring God's handy work. ;)

You have to pick teeny men, then. I would give the same answer as I did in the poll. With the caveat that boys usually mature later than girls.

(And, for the record, Wilson is 26. So you and Bostondevil should be OK.)

[Bostondevil]

15 YEARS?!?! Maybe in pesos. Try, oh... 9...

Actually, I just checked, and it's 11. But that whole "wife and daughter" thing ups your score in the Dirty Old Man category, too.
Face it, Shamm: You're considerably older and dirtier than I am.

Oh the possibilities!!

(You're welcome! )

[Bostondevil]

I'm trying to present things from another perspective. Why is it that if an older man ogles a younger girl he is a dirty old man, but if an older woman ogles a younger man, no one thinks ill of her?

For the record, when I ogle men (there are some pretty good looking older ones too), I refer to it as admiring God's handy work. ;)

You have to pick teeny men, then. I would give the same answer as I did in the poll. With the caveat that boys usually mature later than girls.

(And, for the record, Wilson is 26. So you and Bostondevil should be OK.)

Shammrog and wilson, if that's what you want, I promise to ogle, should the opportunity ever present itself.

[Shammrog]

15 YEARS?!?! Maybe in pesos. Try, oh... 9...

Actually, I just checked, and it's 11. But that whole "wife and daughter" thing ups your score in the Dirty Old Man category, too.
Face it, Shamm: You're considerably older and dirtier than I am.

Oh the possibilities!!

(You're welcome! )

(Is that a compliment to me, or Mancandy-Wilson?)

[Sue71]

Nice shovel. You hoping to get to China today?

POTD!!!

Yeah, what CB&B said.

[CathyCA]

What if a 41 y/o woman olges a 20-something y/o guy. Is that creepy?

This is Cougar territory.

[Bostondevil]

(Is that a compliment to me, or Mancandy-Wilson?)

Both.

And the 'You're Welcome' was for the sunglasses suggestion.

[cl15876]

What if a 41 y/o woman olges a 20-something y/o guy. Is that creepy?

What if he looks like he's in his late teens, i.e. legal?

No - not at all. 20 is plenty. (That rhymes.)

I would say what he looks like is irrelevant; it is actual age. Indeed part of this quandary comes from (for example) 15 year-old chickies looking like they are 25.

(Drool...)

I'm trying to present things from another perspective. Why is it that if an older man ogles a younger girl he is a dirty old man, but if an older woman ogles a younger man, no one thinks ill of her?

For the record, when I ogle men (there are some pretty good looking older ones too), I refer to it as admiring God's handy work. ;)

All I can say for us in our 40 somethings, that is like ogling at your own kid regardless of what gender you might be! I will say that as beautiful as God's handy work is, when my eye's are fixed on a treasure, I become oblivious to the ogling!!! The mind can sometimes be a dangerous place to tempt, temptation! BTW, .... need a another post.....

[cl15876]

Nice shovel. You hoping to get to China today?

POTD!!!

Yeah, what CB&B said.

Dumb question, but what is POTD? :oops: I think Wilson hit it ON THE HEAD!!!!

[cl15876]

I frankly am attracted to the older more mature woman .... its a maturity thing!!!! and too me they are much HOTTER than the young things (just can't get the training wheels I out of my mind ) .... just can't get the kid thing out of my mind!

[cl15876]

Sham - sorry for my ignorance on this matter, but I am trying to figure out how to cast my vote and wanted to ask......

I am 25 and what is too young - 21 ... NO
I am 25 and what is too young - 18, 17, 16... 14.. grass ... YES

So what would I select the 21 or any of the others? :oops:

[Bostondevil]

Have to disagree with you CL. Noticing that someone much younger than you is attractive (my personal definition of ogling) is nowhere near the same thing a doing something about it. My oldest son is 15. I notice sometimes that he and his friends are adorable and are probably a very potent brand of catnip to 15 year old girls. There is nothing wrong with that.

I notice sometimes that, let's say Dwight Howard, I am old enough to be his mother but he is an adult. I think he has nice looking arms. That's all I think about it all but I have noticed his arms. So what, they are attractive. I'm not dead. The difference is in what you DO about it. Pretty flowers, beautiful vistas, attractive younger men. I appreciate the visual gifts the world has to offer. It doesn't make me a pervert.

Now, you can argue that Shammrog talking about the fact that he notices very attractive younger women or, egads, putting up a poll, puts him in the inappropriate category, but let's be real here, most men are going to notice a 19 year old built like a brick shithouse. So what? Wear shades and try very hard not to let your wife catch you at it. (By the way, if I'm the woman who catches you at it, my reaction with be to laugh and say, "You're obviously not dead yet.", even if you happen to be my husband. It's true, you can ask him.)

[Shammrog]

Sham - sorry for my ignorance on this matter, but I am trying to figure out how to cast my vote and wanted to ask......

I am 25 and what is too young - 21 ... NO
I am 25 and what is too young - 18, 17, 16... 14.. grass ... YES

So what would I select the 21 or any of the others? :oops:

Then you would vote for 21 - you are saying 21 and over is ok, but under 21 is not.

(Even to OGLE? We are not talking sex here. Not even sex acts!!!!)

[Shammrog]

Have to disagree with you CL. Noticing that someone much younger than you is attractive (my personal definition of ogling) is nowhere near the same thing a doing something about it. My oldest son is 15. I notice sometimes that he and his friends are adorable and are probably a very potent brand of catnip to 15 year old girls. There is nothing wrong with that.

I notice sometimes that, let's say Dwight Howard, I am old enough to be his mother but he is an adult. I think he has nice looking arms. That's all I think about it all but I have noticed his arms. So what, they are attractive. I'm not dead. The difference is in what you DO about it. Pretty flowers, beautiful vistas, attractive younger men. I appreciate the visual gifts the world has to offer. It doesn't make me a pervert.

Now, you can argue that Shammrog talking about the fact that he notices very attractive younger women or, egads, putting up a poll, puts him in the inappropriate category, but let's be real here, most men are going to notice a 19 year old built like a brick shithouse. So what? Wear shades and try very hard not to let your wife catch you at it. (By the way, if I'm the woman who catches you at it, my reaction with be to laugh and say, "You're obviously not dead yet.", even if you happen to be my husband. It's true, you can ask him.)

Your reaction and that of my wife are very... similar.

(And, I will happily ogle you too!)

[Bostondevil]

Your reaction and that of my wife are very... similar.

(And, I will happily ogle you too!)

I'm starting to think Wendy might be the sister I never had!