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Very Duke Blue
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by Very Duke Blue » February 11th, 2016, 10:34 pm
shereec wrote:DukePA wrote:Much love and many hugs for AD, Ima and your families. ((( <3 )))
From me, as well.

Me too.

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ArkieDukie
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by ArkieDukie » February 14th, 2016, 11:50 am
Day 15 with no food or water, and Mom is still here. Crazy. Stressful.
Most people say that is it is the intellect which makes a great scientist. They are wrong: it is character.
-- Albert Einstein
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windsor
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by windsor » February 14th, 2016, 1:21 pm
All that is gold does not glitter, not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither, deep roots are not reached by the frost.
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DukieInKansas
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by DukieInKansas » February 14th, 2016, 2:37 pm
I've been thinking of you and your family a lot this past week.
Might of mispronounced your last name but you were all lifted in prayer during church this morning.
Life is good!
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lawgrad91
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by lawgrad91 » February 14th, 2016, 4:39 pm
ArkieDukie wrote:Day 15 with no food or water, and Mom is still here. Crazy. Stressful.
Your mom is a strong lady. So are you.
Love and prayers.
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Devil in the Blue Dress
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by Devil in the Blue Dress » February 14th, 2016, 5:45 pm
She's in the down glide as I began to think of it when my own mother went through the same thing. She may be more aware than it appears. Be there. Say what you have to say. Talk to her about special memories you share. Your presence and that of other family members is an important support for her.....and for each other.

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DukieInKansas
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by DukieInKansas » February 14th, 2016, 8:14 pm
Devil in the Blue Dress wrote:She's in the down glide as I began to think of it when my own mother went through the same thing. She may be more aware than it appears. Be there. Say what you have to say. Talk to her about special memories you share. Your presence and that of other family members is an important support for her.....and for each other.

Sing to her - songs from her youth and early adult years. Music is a strong memory. And you have the voice.

Life is good!
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Devil in the Blue Dress
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by Devil in the Blue Dress » February 14th, 2016, 8:29 pm
DukieInKansas wrote:Devil in the Blue Dress wrote:She's in the down glide as I began to think of it when my own mother went through the same thing. She may be more aware than it appears. Be there. Say what you have to say. Talk to her about special memories you share. Your presence and that of other family members is an important support for her.....and for each other.

Sing to her - songs from her youth and early adult years. Music is a strong memory. And you have the voice.

Excellent suggestion

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YmoBeThere
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by YmoBeThere » February 14th, 2016, 10:34 pm
Still time for special moments to be created, if not for her, for you and your siblings...
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DukePA
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by DukePA » February 14th, 2016, 11:47 pm
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shereec
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by shereec » February 15th, 2016, 7:48 am
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Ima Facultiwyfe
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by Ima Facultiwyfe » February 15th, 2016, 8:24 am
I hope you can actually feel this Crazie Family's love and care all around you in the air. Take a quiet moment, close your eyes, and let it soak in.
Love, Ima
"We will never NEVER go away." -- D. Cutcliffe
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ArkieDukie
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by ArkieDukie » February 15th, 2016, 5:30 pm
Thanks, all. I can definitely feel the vibes.
My siblings all needed to return to work today, so I'm holding down the fort with Dad. Hospice folks (who are wonderful) came to treat all the pressure wounds. I'm keeping pain meds on board. Breathing still shallow but it is there.
Here's an interesting and telling contrast. My younger sister worked yesterday in order to get ahead on hours (she is out of leave time, I believe). She wrote an email to her supervisor, updating him on Mom's condition and telling him what she did at work. His response was one line, reprimanding her for leaving a heater on in the lab. I sent an email to our timekeeper, letting her know that I would be out this week. She responded with a request for my address here so they could send me a care package. They have been wonderful and supportive. All in all, it makes my current job situation look a lot better.
My sister forwarded the email from her supervisor up the food chain. Here's hoping the asshat gets a reprimand.
Most people say that is it is the intellect which makes a great scientist. They are wrong: it is character.
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OZZIE4DUKE
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by OZZIE4DUKE » February 15th, 2016, 7:47 pm
AD, I feel for you and your family, but in all honesty, I hope your mom passes peacefully, sooner rather than later, for your and your family's sake, and hers.
Glad to hear your current employers are being nice guys, rather than their usual asshat roll.
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ArkieDukie
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by ArkieDukie » February 15th, 2016, 9:38 pm
OZZIE4DUKE wrote:AD, I feel for you and your family, but in all honesty, I hope your mom passes peacefully, sooner rather than later, for your and your family's sake, and hers.
Glad to hear your current employers are being nice guys, rather than their usual asshat roll.
Thanks, Ozzie. We are all right there with you. We hate to see her suffer.
Most people say that is it is the intellect which makes a great scientist. They are wrong: it is character.
-- Albert Einstein
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ArkieDukie
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by ArkieDukie » February 16th, 2016, 12:06 pm
My mom passed away peacefully this morning. We are all thankful that her struggles are over and she is at peace.
Most people say that is it is the intellect which makes a great scientist. They are wrong: it is character.
-- Albert Einstein
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lawgrad91
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by lawgrad91 » February 16th, 2016, 12:29 pm
ArkieDukie wrote:My mom passed away peacefully this morning. We are all thankful that her struggles are over and she is at peace.
AD, glad to know she is now at rest. Prayers for you through the days ahead.
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DukePA
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by DukePA » February 16th, 2016, 1:13 pm
ArkieDukie wrote:My mom passed away peacefully this morning. We are all thankful that her struggles are over and she is at peace.
Please know that we are all with you in spirit and holding you with love.

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by CathyCA » February 16th, 2016, 1:32 pm
Grant her eternal rest, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. Give Your comfort to those who mourn, especially Cheryl.

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