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TillyGalore wrote:
For the record, when I ogle men (there are some pretty good looking older ones too), I refer to it as admiring God's handy work. ;)

cl15876 wrote: Dumb question, but what is POTD? :oops: I think Wilson hit it ON THE HEAD!!!!

OZZIE4DUKE wrote:I am definitely not dead, but most of my ogling is at the women of Crazietalk.net 8-)

Sue71 wrote:Ok, I haven't posted in this thread yet, but here's my take:

Stage 1: Noticing
Noticing is nondescript, as in "I noticed that guy has an ugly shirt on" or "I noticed the child riding the bike."

Stage 2: Admiring
Admiring is acceptable, such as "He has gorgeous eyes" or "She's got great legs." Admiring may be accompanied by a slightly extended visual observation.

Stage 3: Ogling
Ogling is not acceptable. Ogling involves staring &/or gawking at a person in instant lust. "Oh my God, she's SO hot!" in conjunction with several seconds of staring/gawking is ogling. Note that "(S)he's hot" can fall under either admiring or ogling, depending on the accompanying type of observation taking place. Also, if stage 1 or 2 involve drooling, then they're automatically ogling.

Bostondevil wrote:Have to disagree with you CL. Noticing that someone much younger than you is attractive (my personal definition of ogling) is nowhere near the same thing a doing something about it. My oldest son is 15. I notice sometimes that he and his friends are adorable and are probably a very potent brand of catnip to 15 year old girls. There is nothing wrong with that.

I notice sometimes that, let's say Dwight Howard, I am old enough to be his mother but he is an adult. I think he has nice looking arms. That's all I think about it all but I have noticed his arms. So what, they are attractive. I'm not dead. The difference is in what you DO about it. Pretty flowers, beautiful vistas, attractive younger men. I appreciate the visual gifts the world has to offer. It doesn't make me a pervert.

Now, you can argue that Shammrog talking about the fact that he notices very attractive younger women or, egads, putting up a poll, puts him in the inappropriate category, but let's be real here, most men are going to notice a 19 year old built like a brick shithouse. So what? Wear shades and try very hard not to let your wife catch you at it. (By the way, if I'm the woman who catches you at it, my reaction with be to laugh and say, "You're obviously not dead yet.", even if you happen to be my husband. It's true, you can ask him.)

cl15876 wrote:I frankly am attracted to the older more mature woman .... its a maturity thing!!!!

CathyCA wrote:

cl15876 wrote:I frankly am attracted to the older more mature woman .... its a maturity thing!!!!

OMG--support hose, sensible shoes, blue hair, bifocals. . .

cl15876 wrote:

CathyCA wrote:

cl15876 wrote:I frankly am attracted to the older more mature woman .... its a maturity thing!!!!

OMG--support hose, sensible shoes, blue hair, bifocals. . .

Lose the blue hair and you ARE ON!!!

CathyCA wrote:

cl15876 wrote:

CathyCA wrote: OMG--support hose, sensible shoes, blue hair, bifocals. . .

Lose the blue hair and you ARE ON!!!

Uh, then that's me!

OZZIE4DUKE wrote:

TillyGalore wrote:
For the record, when I ogle men (there are some pretty good looking older ones too), I refer to it as admiring God's handy work. ;)

Why, thank you, Tilly!

cl15876 wrote:
Can I check your ID (I am not good with age discernment), because as SHAM said earlier, YOU look HOT in spandex! Not ogling, but just saying .... (admiring... ;) )

Bostondevil wrote:

cl15876 wrote:
Can I check your ID (I am not good with age discernment), because as SHAM said earlier, YOU look HOT in spandex! Not ogling, but just saying .... (admiring... ;) )

Goodness gracious! First Shammrog, then another friend from Facebook, now you. I know which photo you're talking about and I don't think that is a flattering photo of me at all! I'm not kidding here. Are you guys funnin' me?

And CL? I'm old enough.

I think Shammrog is probably a noticer that likes to think of himself as an ogler. Am I right, Shammrog?

cl15876 wrote:

CathyCA wrote:

CathyCA wrote: OMG--support hose, sensible shoes, blue hair, bifocals. . .

Uh, then that's me!

Ya know, if you pull your supports the right way (which YOU DO!) and continue wearing those shoes, and you shift your bifocals, the right way (I don't care)... OH SHIT (exponentiation to the 8th power)... YOU HAVE ME!!!!! YOU YOUNG HOT THANG!!!!

Bostondevil wrote:

cl15876 wrote:
Can I check your ID (I am not good with age discernment), because as SHAM said earlier, YOU look HOT in spandex! Not ogling, but just saying .... (admiring... ;) )

Goodness gracious! First Shammrog, then another friend from Facebook, now you. I know which photo you're talking about and I don't think that is a flattering photo of me at all! I'm not kidding here. Are you guys funnin' me?

And CL? I'm old enough.

I think Shammrog is probably a noticer that likes to think of himself as an ogler. Am I right, Shammrog?

TillyGalore wrote:What if a 41 y/o woman olges a 20-something y/o guy. Is that creepy?

OZZIE4DUKE wrote:

TillyGalore wrote:
For the record, when I ogle men (there are some pretty good looking older ones too), I refer to it as admiring God's handy work. ;)

Why, thank you, Tilly!

CathyCA wrote:

cl15876 wrote:I frankly am attracted to the older more mature woman .... its a maturity thing!!!!

OMG--support hose, sensible shoes, blue hair, bifocals. . .